
North Wind
“But still the clever north wind was not satisfied. It spoke to Vianne of towns yet to be visited, friends in need yet to be discovered, battles yet to be fought…” – Chocolat
I didn’t choose the name North Wind because it sounded good. I chose it because it described something I already recognized. That pull. That restlessness. That sense that there’s more out there – more people to meet, more stories to hear, more life to live.
What the North Wind Represents
It’s wanderlust. But not the surface kind. The immersive kind. Learning languages. Experiencing places, not just passing through. Bonding with people, not just collecting adventures. For connection. For experience. For living more, not differently. The north wind is what moves you. Not loudly. Not dramatically. Just enough that you start paying attention.
It’s not about rejecting anything. It’s about moving toward everything that feels full and real for you. The north wind is the part of you that says there’s more life out there. And then pulls you toward it.
I’ve Always Followed It
I’ve lived in six countries. Speak six languages. The Netherlands. Switzerland. France. Spain. Italy. Malta. Always drifting toward mountains and places where connection felt real.
I didn’t plan it. I just kept moving toward more life. More people. More stories. More moments worth being fully inside. Places where you couldn’t fake your way through conversations. Where weather mattered. Where you had to actually be there.
I always moved to live more.
Why This Became My Work
Now I’m rooted. Netherlands. Husband with a local practice. Two sons in school. And this work lets me keep following that pull. I travel seasonally to the Swiss Alps, Dolomites, Iceland. I meet couples. I hear why they’re choosing this. I spend days with them in mountains. We travel together. Hike, fly, or float together. Laugh together. Bond, not just work together.
Two days in nature with people creates real connection. Brief, but deep. The kind I’ve always moved toward. That’s patgific. That full-chest feeling of real bonding. Of being fully present with people and actually knowing them. This work is just the shape my life has always taken. Connection. Travel. The elements. Real moments with real people.
I didn’t build a life around this work. I found work inside the life I was already living.
